UnicornMommy: Not my Mother's day.

Saturday, May 9, 2009

Not my Mother's day.

tomorrow is Mother's day. Not a great day for me as I miss my Mom terribly.

So I think. hey I am a Mom. I have one live son, two angel babies and a little one on the way. So I think that qualifies me as a Mommy. so tomorrow is my day too right. Riiiiight.

I have to appease my MIL. We are going to church as usual. No sleeping in for me. No silly breakfast in bed. So I get up, go to church. Because we have a new Pastor and MIL wants us there to hear her first official sermon. that is what MIL wants for Mother's day. After church instead of going home and chilling with my son and husband for MY day. I am going to my MIL family camp.

Not fun. My MIL's siblings are stuck up. difficult to be around. I hate making nice. just because it's mother's day and my MIL mother is back from her winter stay in FL. We HAVE to be there. Hubby doesn't even want to go.

Why do i have to make other people happy, when I am not happy myself.

When do I get my day.

5 comments:

AnonymousMay 9, 2009 at 7:22 PM
Hey, happy mothers day! And if there is a way to choose one thing to do with MIL (like go to church) and firmly declare the rest of the day YOUR family day, you should (or DH should). Because she is HIS mother, it would be lovely to spend part of the day with her, but part should be for you and your family too.

And if you can't do that, I really hope you get to do something special just for you soon...at least you can put your hand on that belly and know your own mom-ness. GL!
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Jesus, My Best FriendMay 9, 2009 at 7:51 PM
i am so sorry for your pain. i can't even imagine. will definitely be Praying for God to carry you through this weekend with beautiful memories of your beloved mother. much love and hope u are feeling well.
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Melis.saMay 10, 2009 at 11:00 AM
Happy Mother's Day! I hope you and your dh & Bug have some time to celebrate your family unit since by this time next year there will be a new member :)

Sending lots of love and hugs to you.
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TigerMay 10, 2009 at 10:16 PM
Happy Mothers day :) Yes it is your day as well :)
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momofonefornowMay 11, 2009 at 10:02 PM
"When do I get my day."

When she kicks the bucket. One day it will be your turn to make bug's wife crazy as hell. LOL!
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Me long Version

Sep 2000: meet the man of my dreams

Feb 2003: I'm woken up in the middle of the night by hubby, then live in boyfriend, who came home from work at ungodly hour and had the urge to ask me to marry him. First I was pissed he woke me up, then I was beyond the moon and wanted to start planning our wedding at 1 AM

Aug 2003: OOPSY we are pregnant.

Oct 2003: 10/4 Good buddy. We have a small (8 guest) wedding a year earlier then planned so I could have Hubby's ins. GOOD THING.

Sept 03-Jan 04: Shoot me. I am sick everyday all day. Someone with a penis dubbed it Morning sickness. what does he know? In and out of hospital for IV drips.

Jan 04: Day before the super bowl...ahhum, Big Game. Not feeling well. Cramping. Think I have the flu. Visiting a friend two hours from home to watch the game. Upset stomach. Wake in middle of the night diarrhea most of the night, then vomiting. Don’t wake up Hubby who had too much to drink. Finally HAVE to wake him up. (he doesn't drink for remainder of pregnancy) Getting sicker. Cramping. No! contractions 27 wks. Big Contractions. 911 called. EMT doesnt like empties. Threatens to take baby if I deliver. Like I am that dumb. Taken to best hospital in the state 30 minutes away. I'm in labor. Deep in labor. At least 18 hrs worth of labor.Not the flu! Pats win the Super Bowl. Labor Finally stopped. bed rest. Told we would never know what caused the preterm.

Feb 04: Home moderate bed rest.

March 04: Invirsion (sp?) to try to turn our baby. Nope. He likes where he is. Asked what I wanted his bday to be. 04-04-04. wouldn’t that have been cool. Told that was too early. Not sure what date was picked. Labor 3-28-04. Nurses didn’t believe me. First time mother and all. HA. I told them we had already had a trial run. Still not believe until morning when I gasp and roll into a ball in yet another contraction. Emergency C-Section. Birthdate 3/29/09 what do dr. know anyways. lol. 3.5 wks early Bug is born. 7.2 LBS. He is perfect.

Dec 06: OOPS again. BFP! Close to Christmas, I am going to wait a few weeks to tell Hubby. Best xmas gift ever. Making plans on how to tell him. Fun gift basket of baby items, maybe. Before I could tell him. M/C Three days before my bday. day after my nephew was born. Seven days before Xmas.

Aug. 08: Decide to TTC for real.

Oct. 08: BFP. only three months into trying. two days after stick test, m/c. don't go to see dr. Is this really happening again.

Nov 08: After mourning finally go to OB. she says probably chemical pregnancy. sends us to RE.

Jan 09: Finally had consultation with RE. Long wait. Only RE in the state. 45 min from home

Feb 09 and March 09: Test, test and more tests. Things done to my vagina that should never have to be done. 15 vials of blood drawn. I like my RE.

March 09: Results. R UU. & MTHFR. WTH. WTH. WTH. Answers to Bugs pregnancy difficulties. HA. OB. You were wrong. I do know why Bug's pregnancy was difficult. next step... good ole fashion S.E.X. plus. Folbee and 81 Mg of Baby Aspirin.

Waiting for cycle so we can start t.t.c.